Just treat women as people and dating will be alright? Moment you treat women as “people,” aka invisible men, they get offended. Women don’t want man-treatment. Who’s “people”? Special branch: uniqueness celebrated, tiny differences appreciated, judgement-free pass for flaws, catered desires, hidden wants. Automatic respect, no objectify, catalog, inadequacy. They judge freely. Dating myth: equality means same standards. Reality: “people” gets pedestal, you ground. Offense when neutral.

They’re people, just more special. Feminism: “same” means “more.” Woman more than woman—also human. Appreciate beautiful body, never shame ugly, fat. Celebrate skills, degrees, wins; no criticize failure, laziness. Freedom, power—no blame, chains, judgement, responsibility. Praise virtue or vice; respect shared traits, unique quirks. Like golden prince doing no wrong. Dating: she flawless human; you flawed pig. Standards one-way. Romance demands her specialness acknowledged, yours irrelevant.

“Treat as people” ignores dynamics. Women demand celebration uniqueness, flaws excused, wants indulged. Men held accountable, judged harshly. She objectifies body; you can’t. She catalogs players; you accept. Dating power: her pedestal default. Offended by equality because expects more. Golden treatment or rejection. Man just man, likely pig. Healthy relationships recognize differences, not fake sameness. Special status boosts attraction. Ignore, fail. Embrace truth, thrive.

On other hand, man still just man, most likely pig. “People” treatment backfires. Women crave leadership, not neutrality. Special handling sparks desire. Pedestal her subtly through strength, not weakness. Feminism promises equality, delivers privilege. Dating success: see her unique, indulge wisely, hold frame. No golden prince pretense. Own piggish strength. She’ll celebrate you too. Truth over illusion builds real bonds. Equality myth kills spark; polarity ignites.